BANXIAOXUE Ban Xiaoxue has been paying attention to women, the flashing and surviving of independent thought in contemporary society. Not long ago, we found the most powerful brain, Hong Chenyao Kelly shared with us the female power in her heart.
Hong Chenyao
Research at Imperial College of Science and Technology, London, UK
Little Red Book popular blogger / strongest brain player
Honghong Yao kelly, a popular blogger with more than 700,000 fans in Xiaohongshu
She loves travel, movies, music, she will be on her little red book,
Share her travel meaning, wear skills, growth perspectives, etc.
She has become one of the most popular bloggers on the Little Red Book.
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In the "Second Sex" of Beauvoir, her own point of view is stated: "Women are not born to be women, but become acquired." BAN XIAOXUE has always been concerned with women, the flashing and surviving of independent thought in contemporary society. Not long ago, we found the most powerful brain, Hong Chenyao Kelly shared with us the female power in her heart.
@洪辰瑶Kelly
"My understanding of independence is more spiritual independence; it is not single, or has no intimate relationship, can not be associated with people, or can be called independence without paying attention to the opinions and suggestions of the people around. The understanding of independence cannot be too absolute. For example, an independent person also needs to know how to listen to the advice of people around him and receive useful help."
"Independence is in my mind, it may be a problem and a difficulty. The first reaction is to believe that I have the ability to do my own judgment and analyze it to find a solution; instead of expecting others to solve it for myself. When there is negative emotions." You can digest yourself first. If you still have doubts and need outside help, you also know how to communicate with people around you to get some advice. You don’t just vent your emotions, or you want people around you to focus on your emotions. ""
B: What special encounters did you have during your stay at Imperial College?
K: I am a relatively adaptable and independent person. I can adapt to different life and environment. I can live at home or go out to chat with friends. Even if I have problems with my studies, I can and around. The classmates discussed and asked the teacher; so the experience was relatively smooth.
B: Can you share with us the daily selection and ingestion of books. What are your standards?
K: I don't have a uniform standard for book selection. Everything depends on my own subjective feelings. I am interested in knowing it, I will go see it; so my choices are quite diverse, such as biographies, novels, essays, Essays, suspense reasoning, history, etc., as long as I am interested, I will choose; but I will not choose books that do not meet my logical judgment, such as successful learning, such as the completion of the book can improve the economic level can be promoted A book of salary increases.
B: After you participated in "The Strongest Brain", what changes do you feel? Have you changed your life plan for the future?
K: Through the strongest brain, I have met many very good friends. Everyone has different backgrounds and life experiences. They are the best in their respective fields. I am more deeply aware that there are many ways to show good life. This is Very interesting experience, but the program itself has no impact on my goals or changes in life, and more is more determined to go to my original goal.
B: If there is such a program, would you still choose to participate?
K: For me, interesting and meaningful things are very rare experiences, so if you have the chance, you will consider it.
B: You are very concerned about Xiaohongshu. As a blogger with both wisdom and beauty, how do you think about fashion?
K: Who doesn't want to have both inner beauty and outer beauty? Haha, the pursuit of good things is instinct, but different people have different definitions of beauty. Some people like evilless chic, some people love complicated patterns, for me. For that, I hope to try anything that suits me and makes me feel good in style and style.
I don't really think that I am a fashion person, because my choice is not popular with the current stream, the fire is not hot, whether the fashion has nothing to do with, I am not a follower of the trend, I only care about whether it is right for me, whether it can Show your strengths and avoid weaknesses and show off the different faces of your good looks. You can find out what you are suitable for.
B: You have more than 700,000 followers. What do you think you need to be a good blogger to stand out from the crowd?
K: An excellent blogger, I think the most important thing is to have the principle that there is a bottom line and persistence. You can't output content that violates your heart and character for short-term benefits. I believe that you will see people's hearts for a long time. If you treat your content in good faith, then the audience will give feedback in good faith.
Secondly, we must clearly understand what it means to be a blogger. We must go to this meaning and goal, and also combine our own strengths and expertise. For example, most of the fashion bloggers love fashion, and they are committed to exporting their own ideas about fashion and beauty. At the same time, they have a more sensitive fashion sense than the public, and they have more external conditions.
I think that everything I share, as long as it can give everyone help in life, or some positive positive energy, bring rational thinking to everyone, can grow together, it is very meaningful, so this is also my choice to be a blogger The biggest motivation.
B: Do you enjoy the current state of life?
K: I feel that I can have my current life. I am content, able to develop on the road I am good at, and this road is in line with my constant pursuit of life. I am very fortunate; because my personality is stronger. I have to ask for things to do, I am also anxious, and I have always been busy, but I feel very fulfilling.
B: In the current society, give women a variety of external standards, can you share with us the understanding of wearing?
K: I once shared an article about the concept of wearing in Xiaohong.
My views on choosing clothing mainly include the following three points:
1. Have a clear understanding of your body shape. The key point of wearing is to develop strengths and avoid weaknesses. For example: my skeleton is narrow and narrow, and it is not tall, so I won't wear a sloping shoulder and a non-slim coat, even if it is so popular; sometimes I see a thin girl wearing it. The coat that was supported by the method was placed in the "popular Korean drama heroine coat", and the slender figure was covered by the wide-slung coat, which was too short and bloated. It was a pity. The coat coat with the waistline and the high waist pants will visually cover up the shortcomings of my body. In general, I only wear models that show the advantages of my body. Other styles that are not suitable for my body, no matter how good, I will not wear them.
2, I don't care what color and style are popular now. (However, the most commonly used recommendation every time you buy a clothes clerk is: This XXX is very popular this year. It is not effective for me.) What is popular this year is different from what I wear, so my purpose is only one: I wear it nicely, just take him. What is popular.
3, the texture of the clothing is more important than the quantity, I would rather wear the clothes I chose a few years ago, and I will not choose clothes that are now sold without texture.
B: In many brands, what place attracts you to choose our brand of clothing?
K: The style is unique and obvious, with a literary atmosphere and a higher taste.
"Through this time, I have touched a lot of new things, took my own comfort zone, tried new changes, and met many people with different personalities. In the past, I was not satisfied with the change, maybe not confident enough. Maybe it’s just thinking too much about perfection, but it’s a bunch of hands. When I really decided to try it, it’s easy, just as if I was hesitant to be another person. This kind of psychological journey may make me choose the next time. A little easier."
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